Gay life coach

At the age of 25, I was engaged to a female to be married. To the outside world, I looked happy, only much of it was a facade. 

During the pressure-cooker of the engagement, I realized that I was living a double life, and I only 6 months before the wedding, I came out of the closet. At that moment, I figured my life would be easy, but I quickly realized​ that my life didn't acquire easier, but rather more authentic. The joy was more authentic, but so was the pain. 

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After coming out, I felt incredibly lonely, and my self-esteem was lower than ever. I kept trying to fit into the mold of what other people said a gay man should be like, only to be left feeling even worse about myself. ​

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After realizing that I still wasn't happy, I began to lay in the perform to change that. I mastered tools to figure out who I am, not who others wanted me to be. I began to build my confidence, and in doing so, I started to create a community of others who saw and supported me, not in spite of

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